10 minutes. No filters. Just the real you.
A dating experience built on radical honesty. Share your Romantic Resume, take the 10-minute validation test, and connect with people whose words, values, and actions actually align.
Sam, 29
Trust 87"I used to hide my anxiety on dating apps. Here, I lead with it — and I met someone who gets it."
Why most dating apps feel exhausting
The best profiles are polished. The best opening lines are rehearsed. And by the third date, you're still wondering who someone actually is. We built 10 Minutes Me to flip the script.
Performance culture
People market themselves instead of revealing themselves. The result? Disappointment when reality shows up.
Small talk loops
Weeks of messaging that goes nowhere. We front-load the conversations that actually matter.
No accountability
It's easy to say the right things. It's harder to prove you mean them. We measure alignment, not charm.
How it works
Three steps to a profile that attracts the right matches.
Build Your Romantic Resume
Share your attachment style, relationship history, emotional baggage with context, and what you're actively unlearning.
Take the 10-Minute Test
Fifteen real relationship scenarios. Timed responses. No backspace, no coaching. Your instincts show up as data.
Meet Meaningful Matches
Discover people whose honesty score, values, and growth trajectory align with yours — and start with context, not games.
Your Trust Score, explained
Most dating apps reward the best marketing. 10 Minutes Me rewards the truth. Your Trust Score isn't a popularity contest — it's a transparent measure of how much your profile reflects the real you.
- Resume depth. Vulnerability with context beats vague positivity.
- Test consistency. Timed answers reveal whether your words match your instincts.
- Value alignment. Ranked values and reflections show what actually drives you.
- Earned badges. Milestones, accountability, and honesty under pressure unlock visible trust signals.
Why 10 minutes changes everything
Research on rapid-response questioning shows that timed, scenario-based answers are harder to fake than curated profiles. Our test isn't a quiz you can study for — it's a window into how you actually respond under relationship pressure.
Instinct over image
No time to craft the "perfect" answer. Just your real reaction.
Cross-checked truth
Your test answers are compared against your resume and values for consistency.
Start with context
Matches see your honesty signals before the first message.
Safety in clarity
Red flags you bring aren't hidden — they're framed as growth.
What you'll actually share
This isn't a job application. It's a growth document. The more honest you are, the higher your Trust Score — and the better your matches.
Relationship history
Past relationships, how they ended, what you learned, and patterns you've noticed.
Emotional baggage
The patterns you're working on — framed as self-awareness, not shame.
Attachment style & love language
How you connect, what you need, and where you're growing.
Ranked values
What matters most to you, and why, with written reflections on your top three.
Passions & hobbies
What you do, why you do it, and how it shapes your identity.
Growth milestones
Evidence of who you're becoming, not just who you've been.
Questions people ask
Ready to stop pretending?
Join 10 Minutes Me and meet people who value the real you.
Create Your AccountOnboarding takes 20–30 minutes. Most users say it's the most revealing thing they've done for their dating life.